I know as a financial site we discuss saving tips /good deals /better interest rates etc.
It is fun to see some bloggers get excited and inspired as they climb out of debt or start a journey into financial fitness. Even reading about items some do for fun.
I am on good footing lately but I am not I would say satisfied or really happy.
I have been talking to others and see that all jobs have problems and perhaps I should find a distraction like e-book or game to fill my time.
I am paid well for very little work. while great for me it is emotionally draining as I know people ARE paying a lot for the products this company is developing (medication) so i can play candy crush.
Ever wonder why prescriptions cost so much?
My savings and financial picture is making great strides and I am feeling ill about it.
The area we live is congested and sucky and so we seldom go out .... no spend days are so simple for me but I am bored. i wonder if it is a phase or just the way it is.
I listen to others at work and most people seem in similar situations of boredom and dissatisfaction. Many resort to eating. none look happy or even smile.
I have actually watched some gain weight since being hired.
I guess I need to find more hobbies or something.
i am tired of going to another placement after another to find same attitudes and disappointment.
Most of the fun or engaging jobs I have had were lower end and now that my resume shows a higher level most lower end pass thinking they could not pay as well or I would leave.
Life is about more then how much you make or at least i would hope so.
how much for happy
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- Creativity--Some ongoing hobbies that you enjoy and have interim goals but no real "end" goal--for me that's writing novels and learning guitar. Robin has some other great ideas. Creating daily or regular habits around the hobbies makes them a more consistent/meaningful part of your life.
- People--I work hard at cultivating friendships I have and being open to new people with interests in common. I try to be very giving of my time and attention but I only give what I can truly give freely--no obligations on the other person's part. That way I don't feel used or overstretched but I don't feel resentful if someone doesn't repay a perceived debt. Volunteering is another option as mumof2 mentions.
- Art or entertainment--for me that is mainly listening to music and going out to music shows (just cheap ones at local bars mostly). I also read the occasional book and/or watch movies/shows.
- Health--I don't love exercise but I find if I don't get any, my health and happiness suffer. So I try to do a quick strength training routine (5 minutes) at least five days a week, and walk 2-4 miles per day. Same with healthy eating--I'm not averse to occasional junk food but I focus on healthy lunches and curbing night snacking.
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