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a few days away

August 13th, 2018 at 06:00 pm

I took a quick trip to my hometown. My daughter and family lives there in my house. I not pleased with lack of yardwork done and general upkeep I will need to discuss and talk with DH about reminding them to clean up more or hiring help. My son in law also seems to think each time I am in town I should take them out for meals etc.
Went to visit my step dad it has been since November since my mom passed but he does not seem to be doing well. I told him how bad a financial mess she had left behind in NOVEMBER.
Now almost 9 months later my siblings JUST figured it out that there is simply NOTHING to estate but bills and they seem confused as to where any money went.
I was quite clear that it was bailing out everyone of siblings and families crisis ( they had a crisis daily). Even though NONE of my siblings are working and live locally, they think that I should drop everything ( a fulltime job) and drive 5 hours to clean up her house and things. I looked over things again and she had some nice clothes and things but not even close to my size but somehow they think I should take these items I took a few items but regret it already as it is nothing but clutter for me to deal with.

1 Responses to “a few days away ”

  1. rob62521 Says:

    It sounds like you have a lot on your plate family wise. I'm sorry. It's never easy dealing with family members.

    When my mom died, I took 3 items out of her house for myself because otherwise, I knew I would probably put off going through everything. DH and I went through the house and threw away tons of stuff that was unusable. I had a guy come in and buy everything with the understanding that he took all the furniture and knick knacks, not leaving stuff for me to deal with. I needed the money to finish paying for the funeral. I look back on that and think it was a wise decision because I didn't have to deal with lots of stuff sitting around.

    My heart goes out to you.

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